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October 20, 2019 Milestones

We’ve had a fun weekend with friends and family in town for fall break. Annadelle’s fall break was Friday-Monday the week before, but she didn’t really get to enjoy it because she had strep throat.

Annadelle at urgent care being treated for strep throat

She got some antibiotics and bounced back pretty quickly, though.

Annadelle and her friend, Kade, who lives with TSC- a rare disease causing tumors throughout the body

While our close friends Carrie and her son, Kade, were here, we took a trip to the Hangout in Gulf Shores only a few minutes from our house. Carrie wanted to get some photos of the big waves coming in from the approaching storm so we went to the public beach access at the Hangout because there is usually a wheelchair mat there that goes out to the beach. Unfortunately the mat has been removed from that location and I wasn’t able to find where it was moved to, if it was indeed moved. So Carrie and Kade walked out to the beach while Annadelle and I waited on the sidewalk. She was really bummed out that she didn’t get to go on the beach.

Annadelle was upset that the City of Gulf Shores removed the handicap accessible beach mat at the Hangout

After Carrie and Kade came back to the sidewalk, we ended up over inside the Hangout and caught the “foam party” they hold on the weekends every hour. Annadelle has always wanted to go do that, but we’ve been hesitant not to mess up her wheelchair. The smiles and giggles that came from her playing in that foam were well worth the cleanup.

Annadelle and Kade playing in the foam at the Hangout
The aftermath of the foam party

As you can probably tell from the photos, we have been practicing Annadelle wearing her KAFO brace on her left leg for long periods of time in anticipation of taking her walker to school on Monday. Last week we had another IEP meeting to modify her current IEP to include the evaluations from PT and OT. The team decided it would be best to discontinue using the mobile stander at school for an hour a day and just put her in the walker for that time period. The PT is also going to have her use her walker during P.E. one day a week.

She does well in her walker compared to a few months ago, but she has a lot of balance issues. She can’t walk in it without the side and back locks on because she leans to the left when walking. We are hoping the more she uses the walker the stronger she will get and the more balance she will have. I think a lot of it is just having confidence so we will see.

Today we took a trip to HomeGoods (my new favorite store, by the way) and didn’t take her wheelchair. She was able to walk into and around the store by herself (with the back and side locks on). It took forever but compared to a year ago at this time, she has made huge strides. Chris and I continue to be eternally grateful for the progress she has made and have faith that she will continue to recover. There is no doubt in my mind that she will one day walk with that walker with no problem at all, and no locks on.

Annadelle during her first WALKING trip out in public!

We have hit a recent problem with therapy, as we have not been able to find a facility locally that will accept her as a patient. We continue to be told she needs to see a spinal cord injury certified therapist, but we can’t do that without traveling a good ways. Our schedules just don’t allow for it and it isn’t beneficial to Annadelle to travel so far for a 45 minute appointment.

We thought we had a therapist locally who would accept her (because she had agreed to do so the week prior), but that therapist decided not to accept her after all. I’ve been livid over her decision and have spent a lot of time praying about it. Two nights ago I made the decision to send her an email that I had initially intended to be an ugly one, but the Holy Spirit grabbed me before I could let that evil come from my lips (or fingertips, in this case). I ended up just telling her how disappointed I was in her decision not to accept Annadelle as a patient and urged her to reconsider. I haven’t heard back from her and doubt I will, but I feel better knowing I plead my/Annadelle’s case and did all I could. If it doesn’t work out, I know that wasn’t God’s plan and there will be another therapist who will be willing to fight for Annadelle.

Annadelle showing off her book report

Annadelle is doing very well in school and made all A’s and B’s on her report card! She has been working so hard in at-home therapy and at school to catch up. We are so thankful to the care team at school who have been working to get her caught up. We really are blessed for that.

Annadelle’s first school photo- 1st grade

We received her school picture proof this past week and I cried like a baby. She looked so beautiful and I just kept thinking about all the things that AFM took away from us this past year, included her first school photo from kindergarten. It’s stupid stuff to some people, but when you don’t get to experience it, it’s like the entire world ripped from you. I think not being able to experience some important milestones for us has made us much more appreciative of what we are able to experience now.

I was telling my FIL this morning that I thought I would dread seeing the Facebook memories from a year ago because our time at USAWC hospital in Mobile was quite traumatic for all of us. I would be lying if I said I had not woken up in sweats and crying dreaming about those nights in the hospital. But as time has passed, I realize I am able to look back on those times and see how far she has come, not what she can no longer do. Of course I still have moments of great sadness, but mostly I am just so grateful to God for what we still have. She’s here with us. She’s thriving. She’s loving life. And she’s continue to defy odds like never before.

She’s truly a miracle, and for that I couldn’t thank God enough.

July 9, 2019

Since my last update, there have been a lot of changes in our lives. First, Chris’ youngest son, Hayden, moved in with us. He is 17 years old and is starting in to his junior year. He’s been doing summer workouts 3 days a week and got a job at a car wash, so he has met plenty of people and made friends quickly. Annadelle loves having Hayden here.

Updates are few and far between nowadays because progress is much slower. Although we see therapists or doctors pretty often, each day is pretty much the same ol’ same ol’.

It wasn’t until today that I was able to see the visual representation of the progress she has made. To be honest, I don’t see the progress like others do because I see her every day. But for those who go months without seeing her, the progress is much more evident.

In June, my sister-in-law, Heather, came down with her two boys, Eli and Asher. The boys are wonderful with Annadelle and they are really good about including her in whatever they do. They each love to be her little helpers.

While they were here, we all went bowling for the first time since Annadelle’s AFM onset. It turns out she really loves to bowl with help of the ramp. She was able to pick up a 6 lb ball easily and put it up on the ramp which is a big improvement. She is slowly getting stronger.

Our family also had a family reunion in Orange Beach during the month of June. Several of our extended family members have been keeping up with Annadelle’s progress on Facebook and were excited to see her in person. Some of our family members gave Annadelle some money while we were there. Later that week, we spent it on a Nintendo Switch which is something the recreational therapists used while we were at KKI in Baltimore. We were hoping it would help Annadelle with her left hand coordination and fine motor skills. And alas, it did because a week later Annadelle was able to give a “thumbs up” on her left hand for the first time since she got sick.

Later on, Annadelle and I traveled back to our hometown to attend VBS at my mother-in-law’s church. Annadelle used to go there with her Granna on Wednesday nights so the church members know her very well.

The first day I dropped her off, I felt very overwhelmed. Taking care of her all by myself was extremely difficult because I am used to sharing the duties with Chris. Needless to say, the first day of VBS I was an emotional (and physical wreck). As I watched her struggle to fit in on the first day, my emotions got the best of me. I went to my car and cried. I don’t even know how to explain what emotion I felt. The closest thing I can think of is “powerless”.

As a mother, all I wanted to do was to make sure she fit in. I didn’t fit in a lot as a kid. There were times I was picked on and left out. Even as an adult I have been left behind by friends as they find newer, better friends to hang around with on more than one occasion. It’s an ongoing issue that I really struggle with, and I guess I projected a lot of that fear from what happens to me to it happening to my child, especially now that she is disabled. It was always a fear of mine and is now a billion times worse so my emotions simply engulfed me in worry and sorrow as I sat there in my car.

Luckily, I was able to call one of very few friends I have and let it out. She reminded me of God’s promise and helped me to calm down. I think I really did have a panic attack.

By the end of the week, my fears proved to be nothing as Annadelle made many friends. The VBS staff were wonderful with her and I’m so glad she had such a wonderful time.

While we were In Calhoun county, we were able to see a lot of our family again. My cousin/more-like-a-sister Robin and Heather, along with our kids, went to see Toy Story 4 at the new cineplex in Pell City. The kids had a blast just being kids.

Annadelle is continuing therapy 3 times a week until school starts. We don’t have a schedule for when school starts but we are hoping to go at least 2-3 days a week. She will be evaluated for PT and OT at school after a few weeks. Right now we are working on her IEP and will meet with the team on the 18th to discuss the draft. Annadelle is so excited to be going back to school. As for me, I’m an absolute mess over it.

At the end of June, we were blessed to receive Annadelle’s new orthotic braces. She got an AFO for her right leg in the hopes it would help her with the hyper extension of that leg. She also got a KAFO for her left leg since she is not able to bear weight on it very much. He quads and glutes are firing in that leg, but she is still very weak. The KAFO just helps her to support the weight of that leg.

While in therapy, one of our goals is for her to be able to walk with the assistance of a walker. Getting used to walking is one thing, but learning to navigate and support yourself on a walker is another. It is a very slow process but we are praying that in a few months she will be walking with the walker. I wish I could express what an absolute blessing that would be for Annadelle. I have prayed for that continuously and respectfully ask that if you’re reading, you do the same.

The day she was fitted for the braces, she stood by herself for about 45 seconds to a minute. This was the first time she had stood by herself since the onset. I did not realize just how tall she had gotten until then. My little girl isn’t so little anymore. I feel like I missed so much of her growth while in the hospital. When she was admitted, it seems that she was so tiny. Now she’s a “kid”. I’m having a hard time with that realization.

We have ordered a Crocodile walker for Annadelle. We think it will arrive within 2 weeks.

Annadelle was also approved for an Amtryke (adaptive bicycle) through the local AMBUCS chapter. I’m not sure when it will come in, but I was told the chapter is covering the entire cost of the bike which is over $600. What a blessing! She has used the bike before at KKI and Children’s for therapy. The bike will allow her to spend some time outside having fun while also getting in a little therapy for her legs to help strengthen them.

Lastly, I’d like to share this amazing progress Annadelle has made after receiving chiropractic treatment. In conjunction with therapy, you can see in the comparison XRay just how much her posture and core strength have improved. The first X-ray was taken at the beginning of May, the second one was taken yesterday. I am just in shock of how much these treatments have helped in a relatively short period of time. I am so thankful to our friend John who referred us to GCFC.

I’m hoping to have another update soon of Annadelle walking in a walker independently! I am praying it will come soon. Please help me to pray for that. As always, thank you for the continued support.

Until next time…

March 13, 2019 Birthday Eve

Tomorrow is Annadelle’s 6th birthday.

She is so excited about her birthday and her party that I have scheduled for the 23rd. We decided to do an indoor pool party for her so that she will hopefully be able to interact more easily with other kids. She moves more freely in the water and I’m excited to get a bit more therapy in while she’s having fun.

My mother-in-law is coming in to town tomorrow for Annadelle’s birthday. Right now our plan is just to bake cupcakes sometime during the day and possibly go out to eat as a family at night. When given the opportunity to choose any restaurant, Annadelle said she wanted to go to Chick-fil-A.

As far as therapy, we have been continuing going to Fairhope each day. Her therapists have told us (basically) that we need to focus more on her core strength than we do her legs, because if she does not have enough core strength to support herself, she can’t walk.

Our goal is to continue putting her in the stander and using the knee immobilizers. We are now going to incorporate a lot of time on the floor to practice rolling and balancing. Exercises like partial sit-ups and reaching is going to help increase the strength in her core, and hopefully she can walk soon after that happens.

I am not overly impressed with the facility, but there is nowhere else closer to us that will accept her as a patient. Thomas rehab is not set up for kids with severe spinal injuries. We have decided to drop her rehab from 5 days a week to 3, possibly 2. We are going to replace those missing days with swimming at the community center. It will be a lot of work on us, but traveling to Fairhope each morning takes the majority of our day so we aren’t able to get as much in at home as we would like. Right now time is precious to us. I’m praying we are making the right decisions to ensure she is able to have as much recovery as possible.

I received a call today from one of the neurologists at Children’s of Alabama who is requesting that we come back to Birmingham so that the neuro team can see her in clinic. They also want to do another MRI and place her under anesthesia. I asked what their reason for a repeat MRI would be and was told it will help them to determine what kind of recovery she will have.

For some reason this phone call infuriated me. Almost every single doctor we have spoken to, with the exception of Dr. Pardo at John’s Hopkins Hospital, gave us conflicting information about AFM and recovery rates. Many doctors simply don’t know outcomes because there is not enough information to provide accurate statistics. Many, many, MANY of the doctors we have spoken with base predicted outcomes on outcomes from patients with different diseases, not AFM.

The truth is this neurologist that contacted me today wants us to have an MRI because Annadelle’s diagnosis is so rare that a repeat MRI offers a valuable learning experience to the team. I am simply not willing to put her through yet another MRI, needles, or any additional time in the hospital that isn’t absolutely necessary for her recovery.

Besides, Dr. Pardo already told us he believed she would make a full recovery, so what would happen if these less experienced doctors told me something different? I’d be an absolute wreck, that’s what would happen. I’d much rather continue to put my trust in God that she will walk again. Chris agreed.

Prior to therapy today, I met with Jeremy, a rep from NuMotion, and Patty, an employee of Children’s Rehabilitation Services in Mobile. We had the meeting in order for them to measure her for a wheelchair and to complete a quick exam to see what she could do and what she couldn’t.

We decided to order her a Ti Lite Twist manual wheelchair. The chair is the exact same one she used at KKI and is light enough that she can easily move around in it. When compared to the other chairs, this was will allow her to grow width-wise and length-wise over the next three years which is the amount of time the wheelchair will need to last (at a minimum) before our insurance will pay for a replacement (unless there is a problem with the chair, in which case it is under a warranty).

She will also be getting the SmartDrive power assist option that will allow her to go long distances. She can push her wheelchair a bit, but she tires out very easily. The SmartDrive will make it easier for her to get around school when she goes back or even help on a simple trip to the store. Check out this link for more info about the SmartDrive. There are also videos at that link to show how it works.

Shelves in her room feature artwork that she created at KKI.

In preparation for my MIL arriving tomorrow, my mom helped me to get Annadelle’s room cleaned out and organized. She had received so many toys and gifts in the hospital that we literally did not have enough room for everything. We have been going through stuff to donate (from our entire house, not just her room) and ended up with two large carloads that my mom and I took to her church’s manna house today to be distributed to locals who are in need of those items.

We will continue working to gather her needed therapy items so that her room can be converted into a small gym. Many of our friends have purchased several items from our Amazon Wish List to help us with these items, and for that we are forever grateful! We are still looking for several items from our list. I have been scouring Marketplace and Craigslist to see if I can find any equipment used, but so far I haven’t had any luck.

I can’t thank our friends and family (and even strangers!) enough for all of the support you have offered over the last several months. Please continue to pray fervently for our sweet girl that she will walk again. I would give anything to see it happen.